Friday, August 26, 2011


Hey everyone more time..Im sorry I havnt been posting I have alot going on and Im excited to say Im doing a few things that Im proud of :) I'm on a new health kick..trying to eat healthy and I have been at the gym everyday! so far I lost 5 Pounds! Im very proud of that! I also have a great job at Toyota now. Much better than the old job >_< . My boyfriend and I are moving in together next week ( super excited about seeing his handsome face every morning and night )

I am also starting my healthy hair journey! no more relaxers and not to much heat! I will be taking much better care of my hair to help it goal is to be about WL (waist length) in about 2 and half years ..I know it does seem like a long time (it is -_-) but I think in the end it will be worth it.

So thats just a quick update on me and my life and whats going on! I am going to try to be on more often! with updates and pictures and all the fun stuffffff!

Peace and love kids <3


Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Can you make it through the month or..

Will you be SPENT? This post is pretty serious. While I was watching the news on my laptop I heard a story about how there a thousands of homeless people in America and Millions without jobs. One of the women began to explain about this "game" that is free to play online called SPENT. (which you can try here) PLAY SPENT . What the game is, is a simulator into what life would be like living paycheck to paycheck like many Americans are doing today and having to make choices for your child, grocery shopping,health bills and many more everyday choices!

The game also give you many facts along the way of how many people are actually living today. The object of the game is to see if you can get through a month without becoming broke or missing your bills. I made it to the end of the month with $397 but I still needed an $800 root canal that I could not afford. Its decisions like theses that so many people actual have to make everyday that give you a real perspective into what life is like when you have to struggle. Please try the game and see if you can make it to the end of the month or will you become homeless with no money...

Let me know how you did! how much money did you have left over? How many days could you get through?

Urban Ministries of Durham is a place in North Carolina (where I was born) that helps provide food clothing and shelter to those who desperately need it! if you have time take time to visit the site and get a first hand look or point of view at what so many people in our nation face

Credit for the game SPENT goes to Urban Ministries of Durham and McKinney


Thursday, February 3, 2011

Rihanna S&M

What do you guys think of Ri Ri's song S&M ..or how about the video!!
its very different..I kind of like the song but the Vid! idkkk it's supposedly been banned in a few places check it out for yourselves!

I need better habits

So I have been up since 12:00 in the afternoon yesterday!! I also have work at 11:00am today (dont ask me how I will make it through I have no idea! I have been laying in bed with my eyes closed for 5 hours and that is not working> I need to get myself into the habit of eating better exercise and sleeping at the same time every night!. I think that's going to be my new goal. I don't know how much longer I can take my crazy sleep patterns!

my goals
-stop drinking soda >_<
-sleep at the same time every night
-start getting in some exercise a few days a week
-lose about 45 pounds(not because I think I'm fat but I could use it)

hopfully I can successfully do all these things I wont give myself a time frame i feel that puts stress on top of it!

lets see if I can get in a small (very small) nap before I go to work at 11!
wish me luck lol


Monday, January 24, 2011

Can I get a chair?

Ok so at my job I stand..ALLLL day. sometimes for 10 hours straight. Now standing for long periods of time cant be good for your feet. I sadly found out its not good for mine =( my poor foot was bleeding because of all the pressure I put on it everyday(according to my Dr.) Now im at a point where i put all my weight on my other foot because I cant take the pain anymore! ahhh I just want a stool or something yeesh =(..

Anywhooo my job search continues in ATL! my future roomie and friend who is already there has our 2 bedroom apartment set up..only thing missing is me =( I think I sent my resume out about 60 times in the past 2 weeks maybe more >_< but I have been using my future address where my friend is now so hopefully that will help some. I have my fingers and toes crossed that I will find something soon because all this snow in Connecticut is starting to really be depressing!

I hope you all have a great work, school, or anything week!
much love xoxox

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Moving on

I think my move to ATL is back on for the 5th time! Alot of things have put my move on hold. work money school all that fun stuff. But as the weeks and months have gone by It keeps making me realize that Atlanta is where I want to be. I have done my research and been there plenty of times so its not just a all the sudden thing =) a friend of mine recently moved into a nice two bedroom two bath by herself and pretty much told me the other room is mine when ever I find a job! wooo! only problem is..No one wants to hire you when you live 900 miles away -_- so i got rid of my address on my resume and we will see how that turns out.I think I sent my resume to about 5o+ places so fingers and toes crossed that it works out!

Until then im working at the same boring restaurant but thankful that I have a place to work! ^_^
oh and side note! It's our 8 month anniversary !

Joel my former bff is my boyfriend. we met through a mutual friend and became friends so quick and eventually it turned in our lovely relationship we have today =)
I have never been treated so well before I love him!

Peace and love my little suga muffins <3

Friday, January 7, 2011

so I was thinking..

Why start another blog this one is perfectly fine and its my baby! and the thought of making a brand new one was irking my nervesss -_- so long live "Live for today" I was feeling sexayyy this evening and cam whoring it up in my room and my result

ooooo honey childdd ^_^ I was feeling my self a little hehe
anyway I hope you will all stick around to my old but wonderful blog!